Hi everyone ! Today, I come to speak of something so much different I believe but not a lot of this I have already spoken but here I want to do a little serie on how to use well social medias ? of course, it won’t be really a guide on how to use well social medias as it’s relatively absurd to imagine can give instructions to use social medias as everyone use them with a very different way and ppl feel things very differently but here, I really want to speak you about of Twitter and Instagram mostly and in this first video, I will discuss of Twitter euh here So the video on Instagram will be more sympa, to my mind because in, I will recommand you accounts, etc which permit maybe to make your Instagram feed more positive euh this will be a little less positive and a little sympa because I find Twitter is so much a toxic social media and you know already why I think this and you are probably ok too but here, we’ll talk a little. there have sometimes I posted on Twitter exactly euh a tweet which I tweeted here all simply in fact so recently on Twitter I questioned you what do you think about social medias ? I will succeed, of social medias ? if there are which for you are more toxic ? and if there have, have you more a conflict relationship? or which have an influence bad on your mental health, well-being and I was so much surprised euh yes and no to see that most of the persons of you in all case, of persons who are answered, quoted me : ” Instagram ” in first, as that which down the most his.her mental whereas tbh, in MY feeling, Instagram is that which permit really to be the most relax, which permit to exchange the most serenely with ppl of course, in the second position, is appeared Twitter and for reasons pratically always the same that I will share with you because I’m so much ok too so, you know with any doubt I’m on social medias and on Internet in general rule since a lot of time I have known Myspace, blogs, skyblogs I have known all these others platforms of blogs I’m on Youtube since almost the creation of Youtube, it will soon do 10 years that I’m on Youtube so it makes a lot of time I subscribed on Twitter almost at the beginning of Twitter there have only Facebook that I begrudged to subscribe because in fact, I don’t like Facebook but if not here, I have already be present online an I was present too on a lot of forums during my youth, etc I have always the habit to exchange with ppl that I don’t knew euh ppl not really ppl with I shared a lot of things or who I had same politics opinions, etc I’m an accustomed of ” debates ” or exchanges on the Internet even if it’s something I do less&less exactly bc Internet has a lot changed and my presence online become so much different euh I have a lot euh, how to say ? defend Twitter in a lot of my videos against the attack which is often make that Twitter is a space in fact where the reflection doesn’t exist that Twitter is space made by and for youngs, where there have a lot of things which are useless, falses, bad, of disinformation where there have a lot of attacks, violence, often this type of critics are from, in fact, of persons who are already established in a certain form of power or in any case of instructions and education and cultur and intellectual aura very, very institustionalised of persons who are totally seated in something more traditional euh and who are arrived even with a lot of privileges and I found that their attitude screwed and I found always btw screwed Twitter is so much elitist, classist and problematic because in fact they refuse a certain form of democratisation of knowledge and speaking Ifind that Twitter is a wonderful way to learn I learnd a lot on Twitter and it’s in fact the only reason of why I’m again on Twitter today I’m again on Twitter bc follow persons like Rokhaya Diallo Mona Eltahawy, like idk, there haven’t everybody who are back but I’ll do a list in infos’s space but too persons who by example are:, lallab ( french feminist& anti-racist association ) or again persons who are feminists, or trans persons or queers persons it’s extremely interessant to see certains articles spent there have really some Twitter accounts which are accounts full of ressources, sources and full of which are in any case real adjusted values to the information and to the infos’ sharing too bc retweet is very easy and which is maybe problematic but retweet is very easy Twitter is even a platform, to my mind, is enough ergonomic euh idk if we can really use ” ergonomic ” in this way but you have understand, it’s enough simple of utilisation, instinctive etc now, Twitter in despite of this high potential of informations and informations too informations almost pirate, I want to say by example the Arabs Revolutions a lot done with Twitter and that it is spent recently in Iran with a lot of protests which are really, really share on Twitter and you have often things which spent on Twitter and which are totally not present in fact of others social medias or platforms very more mainstream like traditional medias so in this way, Twitter is really, really appreciable and enough precious but now the problem on Twitter it’s, to my mind, euh, in all case, there have a lot the first which is my head, it’s T!witter himself, I find that t!witter, it’s, like a lot, most of the social medias but Twitter it’s enough blatant I find not top in the way where of the rule of the rule of the moderation moderation and security and security on Twitter you have already porn, accounts enough doubtful of extreme right extremely fascistic , you have too accounts very, btw we see with terrorists attacks by example or you have ideologies extremely unhealthy, aggressives deadly which walked quite it is very difficult to get in fact, ban of accounts or deactivate accounts, we can only block so effectively block is very good and I’ll be back later but it doesn’t suffice euh, to this, Twitter is really to my mind problematic bc the platform even doesn’t give ways to and doesn’t take seriously in fact the real threats that wwho represent in fact herself or more persons who use with a bad advisedly it can go to the thing very simple like ” harassment ” leaks of personal infos and time to make delete a tweet it’s finish to things to more serious things like effectively terrorists attacks by example so, there have this so a problem more “institutional ” or more, I would say, the system himself of Twitter but me which really disgusts me, really, really think to leave Twitter it’s that it’s spent these last times which touch me so oc here this is that a lot of ppl are on Twitter not to learn, to share informations, not to create content but to attack others, it seems to me that there have really a part of Twitter who really here to create debates which are not really debates with unbelievable sterility and tooo with an unbelievable violence. There have too on Twitter a lack of perspective, a lot of ppl to my mind use Twitter, and I hate say this bc it has a very patronizing feedback but even enough young and are still in the immediacy, that is to say I have the impression that the persons who are younger than me are born in a time where everything is very immediate and where the idea to verify an info, to let few time spent are things totally strangers to their habitual way to do so you have persons who faved, retweeted, who react who bounce to things that they don’t verify things not sourced not exact and in fact it creates a snowball effect enough impressive and if you are the person to the other part of this feed it’s extremely difficult to manage it’s this who personnally arrived this summer, in fact where I was so we don’t enter in details but I was accused to be islamophobic, to be racist to be a whitefem, to be all of these horrible things against I fight moreover and against causes which anti-racism which is important to my heart, the freedom of worship and the representation friendly of differents religions discussions on religious, the come-back of religious in our societies. All of this, it’s things important to my heart the emancipation of women euh a lot of things important to my heart intersectionnality the fact to leave this idea of whites are the spectrum in which we should see the world and the ultimate referent all of things which is important to my heart and for I create content on this ytb channel etc so all of this have been totally ignored, I received a lot of insults, a lot of mentions, a lot of things enough difficult to digest, really really all the more it’s based on totally on wind and when you have ppl who ride up your timeline to find things you said there have some years here, you you say ” this persons here don’t have at all at heart the info and even their cause but are here to really” destroy ” persons and it’s a realisation which really pained me and really hurt me and really question me btw I find the dialogue on Twitter is relatively limited I have more eases to discuss yah, to exchange with ppl on Instagram by example or even on Youtube Twitter doesn’t permit so much to my mind because there have effectively this limit of characters because there have the fact it’s often public because idk there have something which do on Twitter I’m not comfortable to discuss and, after it’s totally personnal but the fact I’m the victim in fact of harassment of my “own” part normally + the fact I don’t really see real possibility to exchange with ppl it has weaken a little the relationship that I had with Twitter and I said me ” why I’m on Twitter ? ” and without speak that effectively I take the harassment enough frequently and regular so this not of my ” part ” but here of the part right(arde) I would say the right horrible which crack down on social medias and against that we can’t do anything in fact bc they know really that if they put a direct insult they are potentially banned so in fact they will denigrate you, calumny you harass you but without of course any content which is locatable by Twitter and so training the close of their account that it doesn’t stop when you connect and you had by example idk 20 or 30 or 40 mentions all more humiliating and violent than others and it’s very difficult to live so I should change my use of Twitter sadly all simply to envisage to stay the first thing I do and I do in any others social medias and that I never do still now it’s I spent on private I spent on private after the event with Tatiana Ventose it seems to me where I wanted to answer to a created content by a videast where I don’t made any personnal attack against this videast, where I was friendly but here it doesn’t spent and in fact I suffered a certain vague of harassment which after have been relayed by others persons and I decided to be in private bc I don’t want in fact thoughts more or less, not personal bc it’s online but you have understand more or less personnal can be accessible to everyone and then I don’t want my talks are deformed and used for endings all others that it was on my head when I formulated them so I spent on private so this it’s positive and not, that is to say Twitter has been too for me by example the mean to relay personal content and now as I’m private by example I post a video on Twitter, you can’t directly Rt this tweet via the link of my video by example so it’s not a big thing this tweet where there have the link of my video but in fact to should adapt her functionment to ppl who are unfriendly, threatening, bullyer violent, insulting and more to suffer in a little way or relative way, it’s even very frustrating and very very annoying to my mind so I spent in private. I had too at the beginning a lot of reservations to the idea to block ppl and I don’t knew if block was really useful. I had the impression in fact almost a personnal defeat when I blocked like an unability you see to manage my feelings or manage exchanges with ppl or yeah a defeat and during a long time an on every social medias i suffered, suffered, suffered bc I didn’t want to block in fact and then is come a moment or when you have more&more views more&more persons who visit your accounts etc more&more persons who insult you, who leak private infos on you stalk you so you block because you are forced so now that I do, it’s I block and honestly if I can to give you one advice, it will be this : to not bothering not to stay in this idea that we should a dialogue we should an exchange an hearing, that not say to him.herself when we block, it’s that we don’t succeed to defend his.her ideas and understand to convince other, that we don’t succeed to have the most perfect answer me, what it matters, it’s, at now, in any case, is to stay on Twitter to be informed to stay on Twitter to can share with persons who follow certains infos that I find important because my activity I think, the main on Twitter is : retweet of articles retweets of tweets of persons who don’t really following in the french-speaker world by example and it motivates me to stay on Twitter the third thing what I have done in fact, it’s that I deleted after the event during this summer in fact I deleted the app Twitter of my phone I don’t ever have Twitter on my phone since almost one month it seems to me, it’s a decision that I have taken bc if you want by example I don’t want to put myself as a victim bc oc there have things really euh, it’s nothing this compared what there have in the world it’s nothing, ok I was in the South, in my family, I went to spent a super day and I come back at home and here I see a notification in fact where effectively somebody has leak this video private, posted on Patreon and should stay private and in, there don’t seem to have nothing of horrible, nothing here but where there have effectively clumsy talks and potentially problematic in fact exactly I don’t want to post on youtube bc I don’t want i will used by persons euh racists or xenophobic so this video leak and at the beginning of this moment here, it’s the catastrophe i received a lot of notifications which insult me of islamophobic, racist filth, etc, waste fine brief people who said ” I knew, since the beginning I never can feel her, she is cancelled, it’s clear I knew there have a strange thi,g with her ” and you see this is the way where in fact you spent your life, you can feel your phone in fact and to receive, see one thing which totally spoil your day and maybe you have spent a super day with your friends, family ppl who you don’t see for a long time and there have this which can totally destroy your day and I have really this feeling where a ‘brouahaha’ permanent and a judgement on things that I didn’t do, not say of a mockery, of a will to humiliate myself in fact that it will the truth or not and in any way, honestly I think it’s the truth bc tweets exist and you can see them you can, with any doubt, to see persons in your timeline who speak about me, no matter but the question isn’t even of is it a true or only my feeling the question is I feel like this and it isn’t positive and it doesn’t help me to question myself, not to create not to learn, to feel good in my life whereas I have a lot of difficults things to manage and so I took the decision to delete Twitter on my phone, tbh really with you in my head it was the first step before potentially all simply to delete my Twitter account I succeeded at the conclusion that I wanted to stay on Twitter in to learn to staying in private, to blocking everything can potentially seem harmful or dangerous and to controling systematically every new person who question to follow me on Twitter and this too, sadly to block, it’s amazing but euh to be in private, it’s amazing to can doing it but in fact to should moderate, judge to should think ” is this person really follow me or this person will harm me ” so in fact it seeing very easy, when a new video is released of certain youtubers to my talks, you have between 15 and 20 news groups euh accounts who question to follow me and in fact, you recognize because it’s still a picture enough similar and always pictures either video games either things a little medieval or very lys flower, french flags, etc things a little like this, they look a a lot and after they dare to talk of stereotypes of feminists but weel, no matter and here, you should delete theses accounts even from the moment where this is extremely sadly to say this but most of accounts which are masculine ben I’m not very sure because in reality the most of masculine persons who interact with me on Twitter, this persons who harass me or insult me, i don’t say it’s only men who did this on Twitter but that I say, it’s the most of exchanges I had with men on Twitter was of this type and this, it’s enough sad but not really easy of an unconscious way to accept it reinforce still a certainreport to men which it’s not that I want to have with them not that i have naturally with them but here, it’s a reality that we can’t ignore and here to should re-think to all these persons and imagine there have only persons who want only to to follow you to be ” hide ” in this mass because you, you can’t really know, not really see to have access to a ” certain ” form of intimacy and use against you it’s not pleasant in fact, really not pleasant after maybe I’m too much sensitive maybe I have too much taken ” in the face ” and it’s a little change me idk but it’s true it’s extremely ponderous and that I lived this summer have really shake me to say really honestly and so I have really changed my way to be on Twitter I really take some distance with Twitter, I don’t more answer in fact to things in general which can potentially lead to a certain form of debate a certain showdown euh and here it’s a little pity but in reality, I’m at a point that on Twitter I almost want to disappear, to re-create an other account totally almost anonymous to follow persons who interest me but well here, it wasn’t a video super positive as I say you, that on Instagram will be very different and I hope it will please you here but it was an important subject a subject that I want to talk and I enjoy to let in infos’s space some Twitter accounts which seem me very interessant and I recommand you if you don’t follow them already i thank you of your attention in this video don’t hesitate to say me of what do you think about Twitter? if you have already same experiencies ? it’s really very interessant to me to know how you manage this and what do you think ? here if you want to support me with financially, you can always do it on Patreon, with 1 euro by month, it can seem you be derisory but in fact for me, at the other way, it makes a lot and it helps me a lot to continue to create regular 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